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Mature experienced sub

I’m a prof widowed white male, 5’9” 190 lbs – average build, naturally submissive, experienced.

I believe you will find an earnest desire to please at the core of my being. I am very clean, vaz safe, D&D free, very discreet, have a quick wit/sense of humor, and am attentive and respectful. I am usually one of those people that you are comfortable with immediately.

Anyhow, I have always been into the sensual side of encounters and always oriented towards pleasing my partner. I have often noted that as a sub I am really “set free” in bondage and a blindfold. I enjoy extended sensual stimulation, nipple play, extended oral teasing, “forced” servitude, etc. (more details later of course – have a completed BDSM checklist). But especially love just being used for your pleasure. Especially love giving extended oral and take directions well, otherwise I tend to want to tease and keep you on the brink for a long time. 

However, even with my past emphasis on the sensual side of things, I do understand the appropriateness of the pain/pleasure meld and am also open to increasing experience in corporal, cbt, nt, etc. Very open to toy play and all intensification techniques. Nothing makes me happier than feeling my partner convulse in ecstasy be it from oral, manual, penetration, or toys. Your orgasms are truly are my goal.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball stretcher, Parachute
Orgasm during play:Always

Ball Busting preferences

How high is your threshold of pain?Fairly Low

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:The beach.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:poolside

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildAverage
Height175 cm
Facial HairMoustache
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleConsulting Scientist

Looking For

I prefer:Good Looks, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness
My perfect matchAttractive, mature, discrete Domme who enjoys controlling a male to primarily be used for her gratification.
Our first dateMutual honest discussion of likes, dislikes, limits, etc.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, CBT (cock & ball torture), Electro torture, Femdom, Genital torture, Hot wax, Power exchange, Suspension, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasSeveral scenarios - reaching sub space & serving a dominant couple.

Fetishes

FetishesCuckolding, Other

Sexual Activities

Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties, All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Scat, blood play

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyYou see nothing would have turned me on more than to be cuckolded by my wife. I would have loved to see her in the throws of ecstasy at the “hands” of another man who fucked her deep and filled her up. She was not approving and unfortunately she is now gone and that cannot ever happen for real with her. So I am very much wanting to be cucked by proxy, so to speak, in a roleplay scenario. I would enjoy seeing the male making love to and fucking his wife while we all role-play that it is my wife that he is doing.

I would expect to be told that my “wife” hasn’t been pleased with me and wants to try a another man’s cock (Great if has large loads?) and I am going to be forced to watch. I might expect to be “forced” to prep both of you; getting him hard by sucking his cock and getting her wet by licking her pussy. Then while you two are fucking I can be forced to just sit and watch (perhaps restrained) or you can order me to do other things like lick her clit, tease her nips, or whatever. Of course you might both continually tell me, and tease me, about how good my "wife's" pussy feels wrapped around his cock and perhaps make me taste “her” juices by licking her or sucking his cock occasionally. With her being fucked good she continues to tell me how good his cock feels and he teases even more about how my “wife’s” pussy feels so great especially as he reaches climax and begins to shoot his cum in/on "my wife’s" pussy with a creampie finish. (Really great if he has big loads or has saved up for a few days!). Then you might ask if I want sloppy seconds with my “wife”. Of course I say yes! However, you say first it depends on how well I eat his creampie and clean up. I lick her clean but not quite to orgasm. So you tell me I will need to try again…. You tell me to suck your cock hard again and I think you are going to fuck her a 2nd time. (This part only if you top::: However, after your cock is hard you tell me to bend over the bed and lick her pussy some more and as I start doing that you cover up and slide into my tight ass. She orgasms from my tongue while you are pounding my ass. As she recovers from the orgasmic aftershocks she watches you fucking me and then begins to suck me hard as you begin to feel the impending ejaculation approach. Finally you quickly pull out, tear off the condom,) grab my head and cum in my mouth. “Perfect cleanup!” you declare.

Then when I am finally allowed to cum, by whatever means, you might order me to cum in/on her pussy (or elsewhere) and clean that up as well.

Please let me know if you are interested in doing this (or at least liked it)! LOL) I will send an xxx pic if you are interested.
Fantasy sex partner:A Dom female with a sub hubby to co-serve.

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Feathers and Gentle Spankings
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
Ultimate femdom fantasy:To be forced to orally prep a couple and watch/participate while they have intercourse ending in a creampie finish and ordered to clean up.